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  1. Lost my twin sister february 15 -2014 today march 17 is our birthday turning 58 year old shut out to my twin sister!

    • Hi Gwendolyn,
      So very sorry to hear about your sister, your loss is so recent and birthdays are not easy at all. I have passed your details on so we will send you the info about joining. Hope we can give you the support you need at this time. X

      • hi,i wish I could tell u sory but that wont change wat is,i lost paul my best friend an identicle twin.we different I found that out very quick,but no matter wat happens he always here,even after 2o years.

  2. I lost one of my twin boys at 20week’s pregnant finally got to met both my boys in a bittersweet moment on the 16 long weeks later on the 27/3/14 such an emotional day will never forget the day we lost him nd the day we finally met rip my beautiful angel xxx

    • your experience is almost the same like mine. everyday I think about my twin…. and sometimes I don’t believe my twin is really death. Hopes my parents is lying and he lives somewhere. 😦

      • It’s a natural feeling when we loose such close loved ones a part of us hopes that they are still alive and our minds kinda trick us into thinking that it’s possible they are still alive especially when the was no closure I in fact still go through that feeling with my dad’s death I didn’t get closure and I often find myself wondering if it’s possible he is still alive he been gone 21 years now I don’t know if that feeling ever go’s away

  3. I lost my twin sister when we were 14 following a 13 years of reoccurring, terminal brain tumor, and ultimately ending her own life. I am turning 33 this week. It is somewhat troubling to me that it is still so hard. Our birthday is harder for me than the anniversary of her death. I guess even 18 years later, celebrating our birthday without her loudly reminds me how i am not meant to be alone. It is both sad and encouraging that there are others like me out there.

  4. I lost my twin at birth. we can be a great couple at prom night if he is here. I can forget my 19 birthday. because no one celebrate. but as the present his ghost is coming. 🙂
    now i’m waiting for my 20th birthday.

    • I lost my twin when we were twelve weeks, whilst my mother was pregnant. I’ve no idea the gender of my twin or whether we were identical or not. I’ve always felt that there was a part missing, and I never knew what it was until my mother told me that I’d been a twin. My twin was never born, but I still know that they’re there, watching over me, like yours:).

    • So so sorry for your loss I’ve survived so much death in this life and each time a piece of me went with them I’m such a different person now than when my loved ones were alive I can’t imagine loosing my twin of 67 years please if you would ever like to talk about your twin with me I would love to listen to your stories feel free to email me anytime my name is christie my email is jaydenx2@gmail.com

  5. Today me and my sister turn 14… She left almost two years ago… by it still hurts… She was my mirror twin and it hurts to look in the mirror still…. and if your somehow reading this, Happy birthday Tillie.

    Love Ami

  6. Hi my twin sister died at two wks old i still miss her and every morning,evening i talk to her always looking through the mirror as we are identical i find it comforting especially on the dark days. Im now 39yrs and i still break my heart every birthday and every Christmas. I also struggle with split personality everyday is a struggle.

  7. My earliest memories of life I remember being a young grl and I would be severely depressed I would cry to my mom that please would she give me a baby brother literally be crying to the top of my lungs begging her….I would say I’m missing a brother I would dream of a boy that I just loved from the bottom of my heart and when we saw each other in my dreams we would hold each other and cry until I woke up I yurned for a older brother bit we were the same age my mom once told me when I turned about 21 and had a miscarriage that she had lost a baby before I was born and as soon as I started asking questions she shut down and changed the subject I was never told I had a twin.in fact I was just laying here remembering that time in my life and then it occurred to me could it be that I was a survivor twin and started researching the Internet and I happen to stumble across this site and here I am now writing to all of you.I will tell you this though since I was a little girl as early as I can remember every birthday I’ve ever had was deeply depressing and filled with empty tears I never knew why Ive cried for all of my b days also I was diagnosed with manic depressive disorder at the age of 9 based on my very first suicide attempt ; (

    • I’ve just found out I’ve got 2 birth certificates with the same name born in local town and city and most people’s comments seem a lot like my own life.To my mother this subject is a closed subject, I’m just researching at present as for your comment on suicide ALWAYS REMBER the word VALUE and try to keep smiling

  8. Lost my twin brother 11 hours after i was born in Haiti about 32 years ago. Wish he was here…. because being lonely mentally in life is hard to deal with. Physically i have friends and gitrlfriends, but dont seems to last long.

  9. Just found out at age 33 that I lost my brother in the womb around 7 weeks. I struggled my whole life with my identity (I am female), and a crushing feeling of loneliness. If I had never known I don’t think I would have survived much longer. Maybe now I can reconcile that part of my life.

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